By : Mohd Redzuan bin Zamberi _^K.B.;P.A.

In any household situation, both need to play a role.

Husband's Role :
1. Patience (A commendable quality that elevates the dignity of a husband. The more patience, the more quality you have!)
2. Conciliator (As Caliph you give in..Extreme ego makes the wife distant and disheartened)
3. Housekeeping Helper (Wife is under pressure to take care of all the affairs.. help! You are brave)

Role of Wife :
1. Patience.
2. Calm down (When there is a crisis, the wife is not necessarily right and always needs to win. It's good for a wife to give in and reconcile with her husband. Sometimes she is patient and compliant, the husband appreciates it more).
3. The best manager of the household (no matter how good a husband is, they cannot compete with the wife to do many things at home. Sometimes just a little help. So the wife distributes the tasks that the husband can do, and asks for help in a good way, not perli or bebel).
The most important thing is the husband's attitude that it is not easy to pronounce divorce and pronounce taklik to teach or punish the wife. Have a lot of PATIENCE because that is the attitude of Rasulullah S.A.W who was always gentle, patient and polite to his wives. An angry, vengeful, hitting, cursing attitude is the character of the Pharaoh. Take your pick….
Hopefully this tip can help husbands and wives in household management, if it can be resolved peacefully in a conflict it is recommended both together without involving any of the previous parties, see a certified counselor if you want to get support,
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Date of Input: 30/04/2024 | Updated: 30/04/2024 | ayna