By : Mohd Redzuan bin Zamberi K.B,P.A

This tip is suitable for couples who have been tested with various household tests until they often fight and are threatened with divorce. There are also couples who openly admit to being in love with someone else and start to lose heart to you. You are disappointed but in the corner of your heart, you still love your partner and want to save the family.

1. Bertahan (Survive) - if tested, don't be quick to lash out and be overly emotional until your meek self changes character and becomes a hated and disrespected woman. Duration according to each person's ability, i.e. give yourself and your partner a period of 6 months, 1 year or 2 years. This period can be changed according to convenience.
2. Bertenang (Calm down) - believe that God's tests in the world are temporary. Some are only tested for years, months, days and only for a moment. Everything has an end. Believe in God's wisdom.
3. Bertindak (Acting) - crying and uncontrollable does not help anything. because it is the characteristic of a person who gives in. Get up to love yourself and people in need, which are children. Pity the people around. When you suffer, they are neglected and do not understand, especially small children.
4. Berdikari (Be independent) - Don't rely on anyone in this world except sincere people you trust and avoid slander like family members. However, they also have responsibilities and lives. Surely one day, you will have to move on with your own life. Learn and believe in yourself that you can succeed with the talent and strength that God has given you.
5. Bersedia (Be prepared) - be prepared no need to wait for the test to hit. Prepare mentally, emotionally and in action in case of separation, death or polygamous couple.

Date of Input: 25/09/2023 | Updated: 25/09/2023 | ayna