By : Mohd Redzuan bin Zamberi _^K.B.;P.A.

WAY 1 : Showing Full Interest in the Partner

This first way, if you use it can capture the heart of your partner. What does it mean to show complete interest in a partner? It means you need to FOCUS on your partner during the conversation. This focus requires full eye contact and listening skills.

Focus all your attention on your partner. Your mind should be zero and receptive to whatever topic is being discussed. The eyes are focused directly on what is being talked about. So turn off your cell phone for a while. Keep your cell phone in your pocket. It reduces eyes focused on the message that stopped on the chest of the phone.

When your eyes often steal glances at the mobile phone, it will make him feel unimportant? The topic is not interesting? Or you are not interested in talking to him. When we focus and are interested in what our partner is talking about, he will definitely feel satisfied talking to you. They feel respected and enjoy talking to you.

Also, don't dominate the conversation. Give the topic win to your partner. Focus on what he is talking about. Not what we want to talk about. This is an important tip in mastering this first method. If deadlocked, because your partner is a passive person. You need to ask a lot to explore his interests. Make sure the question is not sensitive and not rambling like being interrogated. Ask questions about his interests and hobbies. What are your free time activities? From there you will see the tendency of a person's interest based on his reaction and enjoyment of telling a story.

Practice this one thing first. Because many FAILED at this first method. If you fail this first step, how do you want to proceed to the next step..???

WAY 2: Smile

This technique is very powerful to make your partner mesmerized by you. Does this seem like an easy way? But many fail to make a partner fall in love with you. Why?
Because this smile is a skill. Smiles according to body language science, which is the Body Language Course, a true or false smile can be seen in the fine lines on the side of a person's eyes when they smile. A real smile is a smile etched with fine lines on the sides of the eyes. While a fake smile has no visible fine lines.
A smile is an attractive aura for couples to approach us. It is like a signal to open up an intimacy.

If you are sad. It will reveal a repellent aura visible on the face. Your partner must not feel comfortable. This happens because your face does not show that you are ready to speak calmly and freely.
The scope of this smile is very wide. A smile is not just for you to be liked by your partner, but a proof of your love for him.
Imagine no more smiles etched on each other's faces, then a marriage will be bland. The warmth of love is no longer felt because each is serious and only talks about the topic of responsibility and daily routine.

WAY 3 : Remembering His Special Date

This technique is one of the extraordinary techniques to make your partner mesmerized. When was the first time you met a partner? Do you remember the date of the event? What shirt and what color? Where is the event? When did you first express your love or propose to him? Most importantly, when is your wedding date?
Indirectly this is your "Anniversary" every year. Do you celebrate him or just express with words like the date of his birthday every year? This special date is very important for a wife than the husband. But there is no doubt that there are also husbands who put a lot of emphasis on this date and welcome it with various preparations to give a special surprise to the queen of his heart.

As a husband you have to know these important dates. Your attitude of forgetting or not caring makes him sulk for a long time and feel that he is not so special anymore. Set an alarm on your mobile phone or on social media.

Method 4 : Be a Good Listener!

Being a good listener is not just about listening, but the eyes and other parts of the body also play a role during the listening process. When your partner is talking, clear your mind and listen with interest as if you didn't know about it.

Even if you know or are knowledgeable in the topic of the hearing, clear your mind and focus 100% of your interest in listening. A good listener is an individual who listens 90% and responds 10% non-verbally. This non-verbal includes proper eye contact towards the speaker.

Have you ever felt that when you are talking, your partner is not paying attention? How did you feel then? Why does this happen? Is it because your partner does not have this knowledge? Maybe you always ignore him, eventually your partner responds back.
If you want to be liked, sacrifice your busyness for a moment to give your full attention to your partner. Put down the mobile phone first or pause your viewing on the TV screen.
Your whatsapp group, telegram, facebook, Tik Tok, Instagram or thousands of fans will not make you happy like your partner makes you happy. They may come and go, but your partner will faithfully wait and take care of you in times of sickness, hardships and good times.

Date of Input: 30/03/2024 | Updated: 30/03/2024 | ayna